Cracking the Shell: Growth Through Struggle

Sometimes the deepest lessons come from unexpected places—like watching a duckling hatch. It starts with something called an “egg tooth,” a small, temporary point on the beak that helps the duckling break through its shell. The process can take more than 48 hours, and from the outside, it looks frustrating, even painful.

At one point, concern creeps in: Should we help it out? But the answer is surprising. If we intervene—if we crack the shell for it—the duckling could die. Why? Because the effort of breaking free builds essential muscles. It’s not just a barrier; it’s the training ground for survival.

This powerful moment becomes more than just a science fact—it becomes a metaphor for life.

We all go through challenges that feel like too much, too long, or too hard. But just like the duckling, we often grow the most during those difficult moments. Our struggles—though painful—are often building us into stronger, wiser people. We’re developing the emotional, spiritual, and mental “muscles” we’ll need to face the future.

Sometimes what we see as cruelty or indifference—whether from people, life, or even God—is actually a form of kindness. It gives us the space to grow on our own terms.

Do you want to shed part of your old self and start anew?

Growth doesn’t come easy, but it’s often waiting just beyond the cracks we’re strong enough to make ourselves.